tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8440342037849072194.post7426474729726902345..comments2013-09-18T12:34:08.944+08:00Comments on Rolling Thoughts...: FOR ALL THE WOMEN..RESPECT YOURSELF FIRST !!Piuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151247579509700998noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8440342037849072194.post-38834083770720031492013-09-18T12:34:08.944+08:002013-09-18T12:34:08.944+08:00I really cant get you...what you want to say?? If ...I really cant get you...what you want to say?? If you are a woman...then my point is to Respect yourself first..then expect others to Respect you..<br /><br />But if you are conserned about some family affair,of daughter-inlaw & Sister-Inlaw...Then here is my answer..<br />If you are somebody's sis-in law...then you should understand,the girl you are making your family's daughter-inlaw,is new to your family..if you will make her comfortable with in your family..then she will also love you and respect you.<br /><br />But if you will see only the mistakes of her in every point..then definitely she will want to keep distance.Definitely she has left her home and her own family & home..where she was born...so for adjustment & all..she will need time..So just care for her needs..you should help to make husband and wife first comfortable to each other,let the husband first understand the wife & vice versa..then gradually she will accept n love u all. But if you will creat probs in her life, by telling against her to her husband...then its the time,when definitely..a wife will revolt..coz she has left all for the husband..<br /><br />Anyways dear..who are you,& whats your prob with your sis-in-law..I dont know..<br />But in my paternal family..i have seen daughter-in laws as my mom,aunts and my both brother's wives...they have spent life in our house as daughters..they have freedom to do anything,they have freedom to take decisions...their mom & dad are treated like best buddies in our family.And all are very close to each other & they used to talk ,have fun together,unlike other families...Like Daugher-Inlaw's Family will always call N talk..& her Family will never get call of fun,from the Son-Inlaw's Family..instead they will get call only at the time,when they have to complain against the daughter-Inlaw to their parents!!Even i have seen daughter-inlaw, Mom-Inlaw,Sis-inlaw are having fun & never against eachother in our family..<br />When any prob happen between husband & wife,Mom-inlaws always tried to make her son undersatand before talking to Daughter-Inlaw.They never aggravate the fights,so that the fights resolve very soon peacefully.<br /><br />Definitely A Daughter-inlaw never feel the inlaws family outsider...She always try hard to adjust..she only want some affection and love..if she will get that,she will be comfortable within you all.<br />if a woman is sister of her husband,or Mother of her husband...then definitely important to her..so she will definitely try her best to mix with them well, but is she is a good wife..then.<br /><br />you have to be open minded..in so many cases...now a days also...people think that,daughter-inlaw should understand..and nobody will understand her!!<br />Its a wrong thought..change that with in yourself...then you will find a new world.Piuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09151247579509700998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8440342037849072194.post-19589177110944005162013-02-26T23:49:13.758+08:002013-02-26T23:49:13.758+08:00if only women learnt to respect women...
its the ...if only women learnt to respect women...<br /><br />its the women who ill treats her daughter in law..<br /><br />its the women who expects her spouse be respected by the family but disrespects her own sister in law....<br /><br />i being a woman wonder how this is going to change....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com