When To Educate Your Child About Sex ?

Most parents find it difficult to talk to their children about sex; some feel unconcern about sex education, but we should know that our children spend a lot of their time watching television and most of these programmes they watch and what happen around them affect their lifestyle either positively or negatively, so is up to we; parents should educate their children about sex and safety and not letting them learn it outside, because you don't know what they are been taught there.

Children around age six ask questions like "where babies came from?" or "what are breast are?" when children start asking question like this, the best thing parent should give them honest and accurate information, just tell them everything don't hid anything from them. Its better they know and learn from you than they should learn them outside, from that age, every year as they mature, you should add more information to the level of their understanding.

Let them know that:

1. No Drinking

2. No Smoking

3. No Sex, no babies until marriage

It is important that children should know what would happen if they should have sex, the diseases they could contacted even if they wear some type of condom, disease like STDs, but there are sure way of not contacting the disease or getting a girl pregnant, if he stay away from sex.

It would be nice for you sex educate your children rather than letting their teachers or learn from their friends which can be dangerous to them and to you their parent. So give your best to your children education.

FOR ALL THE WOMEN..RESPECT YOURSELF FIRST !!

By honoring yourself and treating yourself with respect, you set the stage up for others to treat you with respect.

GOD Almighty made us so delicate,so glorious creatures; and furnished us with such charms,so agreeable and so delightful to mankind; with souls capable of the same accomplishments with men.

I feel that as women we've allowed ourselves to be deluded 

by certain ideas that hold us back, such as the over-glorification of masculine consciousness. 

To me, liberation doesn't mean that I can think just like a man. 

Real liberation means that I can think, act, and be like a woman 

and receive equal respect, honor, and compensation. 

Liberation also means that even though I'm a woman,

I have masculine parts of my temperament 

which I can safely explore and integrate into my experience. In the same way, real liberation for men means that they can explore and integrate their feminine aspects of consciousness!!!

Women have always been the strong ones of the world. The men are always seeking from women a little pillow to put their heads down on. They are always longing for the mother who held them as infants.

It took years of being a grown up to get that confidence and self worth back but there are still days that I get caught up in challenging situations and forget.

(The daughters. The mothers. The sisters.

The fribblings – friends like siblings.

The wives. The girlfriends.

The aunts. The nieces.

The grand-somethings.

The young uns. The teens.

The women in your life.

Who love, lose, cry.

Laugh, heal, thrive.

Nurture. Create.)

I decided to create a reminder for myself and all women, bringing together quotes that inspire, empower and remind us of how powerful we really are.

Mere quotes won’t change your life, but they can change your perspective and your day.

ANYTHING is possible thereon.Because even though we have bad days, it’s not a bad life at all.

You.Are.Amazing.

As. you. are.
Stronger than you know.
More beautiful than you think.
Worthier than you believe.
More loved than you can ever imagine.
Passionate about making a difference.
Fiery when protecting those you love.
Learning. Growing. Not alone.
Warm. Giving. Generous.
Quirky. Sexy. Funny. Smart.
Flawed. Whole. Scared. Brave.
And so, so, so.much.more.

Be Strong. Be Confident. Be You.

"Woman must not accept; she must challenge.
She must not be awed by that which has been built up around her;
she must reverence that woman in her which struggles for expression...."

I want to Respect Myself first...Then Expect others to Respect ,
ME AS A WOMAN !!!

ps: A smile is still the sexiest curve on your body. Ever.

pps: If you know a special woman, let her know how phenomenal she is.

                                                                                   - By Silpa Satpathy Misra

Honouring Motherhood Is Our Pride !!!

Mother's Day is one of the most special occasions in OUR ( Silpa  & Lipsa ) life.
On this day, We want to pampers Our mother and lets her known how important she is and how much is she appreciated by us.While Our mother loves us equally, the relationship that she shares with us is always a bit extra special.
And As truly elegant taste is generally accompanied with excellency of heart....And We Can tell it Proudly That Our Mom is the Most Elegant Person We've Ever Seen,A Woman With Truly Pure Heart !!

So, it becomes the responsibility of us to express that, she realizes the unusual bond that We share and appreciates it all the same !!!
Love You A Lot Maa...Really Missing You On This Day !!!

It's The POEM For you .....Maa !!

"I miss you so much,

your laugh, your smile, your touch.
You always brightened my days
with all the smiles you sent my way.
I need you as my angel
to always be at my side.
I need you as my angel
to give me peace of mind.
I like to think your near to me
to know that you are there.
Even though I can not see you,
I feel that you are near.
Please do not forget me mom,
for you are always in my heart,
my thoughts and prayers.
I love you."

 It's The POEM For you .....Maa !!

"You were there when we took our first steps,
And went unsteadily across the floor.
You pushed and prodded: encouraged and guided,
Until our steps took us out the door...
You worry now "Are they ok?"
Is there more you could have done?
As we walk the paths of our unknown
You wonder"Where have my children gone?"
Where we are is where you have led us,
With your special love you showed us a way,
To believe in ourselves and the decisions we make.
Taking on the challenge of life day-to-day.
And where we go you can be sure,
In spirit you shall never be alone.
For where you are is what matters most to us,
Because to us that will always be home.." 

Today It's Over. Now What Again...

It's over. Now what again....

Suffering from a broken heart or a Abusive Relationship? Afraid you'll never get over this feeling of emptiness and loss? You can, and with the help of this easy-to-follow program of action, you will.

Dealing with heartache. We have all been there, and its tough. There are no shortcuts to feeling better. It is good to reflect and remember the good times. and even better to share the pain from a broken heart. I believe that grieving of a loved one who hurts us, helps us to accept when its over.

"There is one pain I often feel which you will never know because it is caused by the absence of you."

"Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew."

"When I Look At You My Heart Skips A Beat But Later That Beat Could Mean A Lifetime Of Tears Wasted On Something,Who will never keep my Love Forever" 

[ The best word I could use to describe him is a 'tornado.' He ripped through my life destroying my relationships, my self-esteem, my confidence and I constantly felt anxious, depressed and sometimes downright crazy.]

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"Now this gravel in our voices, glass is shattered from the fight.

In this tug of war, you’ll always win, even when I’m right.

Cause you feed me fables from your hand,

With violent words and empty threats and it’s sick

that all these battles are what keeps You satisfied.

 You, with your words like knives

And swords and weapons that you use against me

You have knocked me off my feet again

Got me feeling like a nothing

You, with your voice like nails on a chalkboard

Calling me out when I’m wounded

You picking on the weaker man than yours

But still God is There..to heal my wounds

& takecare of the faults of yours !!"

 How many times does someone say "you will find someone else" that does not help when the person you want does not want you....

                                       Heart Break Is Painfull....Its a Sad Story !!!

 

"I think of you in Silence

I often speak your name

All I have left are memories

and a heart around your Name

My Heart aches with sadness

and all my tears will flow

but what it meant to lose you

no-one will ever know!!!"

"I'm going to smile and make you think I'm happy, I'm going to laugh, so you don't see me cry, I'm going to let you go in style,

and even if it kills me- I'm going to smile."

"It is not enemies who taunt me — I could bear that; it is not adversaries who deal insolently with me — I could hide from them. But it is you, my equal, my companion, with whom I kept pleasant company; we walked in the house of God with the Promisses…But now you are with speech smoother than butter, but with a heart set on war; with words that were softer than oil, but in fact were drawn swords.Husbands, love their wives, never treat them harshly!!You can act Really well,in front of others,and open my faults one after one...But i can't.So i prefer to tell the truth,when i feel frustrated."

 

"I loved you once I'll love you again, even though we will be not together, I 'll be with you until the end !!!"

 

Christmas is A day To celebrate with Love !!!

Let us remember that the Christmas heart is a giving heart, a wide open heart that thinks of others first.

 The birth of the baby Jesus stands as the most significant event in all history, because it has meant the pouring into a sick world the healing medicine of love which has transformed all manner of hearts for almost two thousand years... Underneath all the bulging bundles is this beating Christmas heart.

Late on a sleepy, star-spangled night,A woman spent all Christmas Day in a telephone box without ringing anyone. If someone comes to phone, she leaves the box, then resumes her place afterwards. No one calls her either, but from a window in the street, someone watched her all day from his home, at last called in the phone box.No doubt The woman take the call & The man wished her "Merry Christmas".Then the woman told him,thanks for wishing,as she has nobody in this world.so she thought of stading near the phone box every year in Christmas Eve For a warmth wishing.nobody noticed her ever.its the 1st time in last 10 years,After Her Family Destroyed in a road accident,she got a call...she was so happy that,she cried. Then she disconnected the line & went home.The Man has Nothing To tell her more,as the woman's statements were very much self explanatory.This is called the Syndrom of Christmas,Which always Needs a warmth heart beside it.

Best of all, Christmas means a spirit of love, a time when the love of God and the love of our fellow men should prevail over all hatred and bitterness, a time when our thoughts and deeds and the spirit of our lives manifest the presence of God.

So "Let us keep Christmas beautiful Without a thought of greed, That it might live forevermore To fill our every need, That it shall not be just a day, But last a lifetime through, The miracle of Christmastime That brings God close to you."

SHAPE UP YOUR THOUGHT !!!!

We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. When the mind is pure, Happiness follows like a shadow that never leaves. We are what our thoughts have made us; so take care about what you think. Words are secondary. Thoughts live; they travel far.

Life is one big road with lots of signs. So when you riding through the ruts, don't complicate your mind. Flee from hate, mischief and jealousy. Don't bury your thoughts, put your vision to reality. Wake Up and Live!

 Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry,
their passions a quotation...

There is little difference in people, but that little difference makes a big difference.
The little difference is attitude. 
The big difference is whether it is positive or negative.

It's Life....Accept It...Give Love & Get Love !!!!

 It's Love ... Which Make You Strong....
It's Love ... Which Make You Weak.....
Choice Is Yours My Dear !!!!!
Being Deeply Loved By My Family & Friends Give Me The Strength To Face Every Damn Obstacles In Life,
While Loving Them Deeply Gives Me Courage To Handle & Solve My Problems...."

 "In My Life...I Have Got So Many Things ,But Lost A Lot Too...
But It's True That, I'm Happy With What I Have...& Lil Sorrow For The Lost...."

Coz It's Life...How It Will Come...U Should Accept & Try To Be Happy !!!!

 So My Only Motto :
Start The Day With LOVE....Feel The Day With LOVE....End The Day With LOVE.... !!!

Without Love---Days Are,

Sad Day, 

Moan Day, 

Tears Day, 

Waste Day, 

Thirst Day,

Fright Day, 

Shatter Day. 

So Be In Love Everyday !!!
If Not...Then The Days Will Be DULL & BORE !!!!!!