Saturday, December 8, 2012


Why Complicate Life...Make It Simple,So that Others Can Understand You Well,We just have one life keep it simple silly :)


Missing somebody? …Call

Wanna meet up? … Invite

Wanna be understood? …Explain
Have questions? …Ask
Don’t like something? …Say it

Like something?…State it

Want something?….Ask for it

Love someone ? …Tell it

It’s better to Express, Rather to Expect
You already have the NO, Take the risk of getting the YES !!


You Can't Control Your Life...Your Time..or Your Destiny...
But One Thing You Can Control,Which Will Give a Positive & Happy Effect To All This...
Is Your WORDS...
Mind what you are Telling & How You are Presenting...

May Be You are Hurting Somebody Knowingly or Unknowingly...
So Just Take Hold On your Words & You Can Change Everything Positively!!! :)


"Smile" is a gift of God... Some utilize it fully, Some don't..
One thing We all Should understand... 

What is happening in our Life,we can't stop...
We can't aspire for more beyond capability...
We can't change our fate...
We can't force anybody beyond their Interest..  
But Whatever We have, or We are Getting or Any good-things are happening ...can't be taken by anybody!!

There are people who are not even getting 10% of what we are getting !!
So think ...

"We should be happy What we have & expect good things further Being Positive??"
"We should be Always be Sad & Unhappy For,what we are not having now??"

**I always think We should utilize fully,God's incredible & Most Beautiful Gift "SMILE"
Because " It's Cost Nothing...But Worth Everything" :) 

Tuesday, July 17, 2012


The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.

Leaving a person for his mistake, is never giving a chance for improvement.

But the biggest difference is this. Men forget, but never forgive; women forgive, but never forget.”

“Forgiveness is not about forgetting.It is about letting go of another person's throat....Forgiveness is about setting yourself free and you can do that by releasing the past so it no longer has control over your thoughts or the way you feel. The importance of forgiveness has everything to do with your own well being.
How? When forgiveness takes place, we naturally release the disturbing thoughts and emotions that drain our physical, mental, emotional and spiritual well being.
The result is a greater level of health and happiness in addition to the endless benefits that forgiveness brings.Learning how to forgive and forget doesn't always seem like an easy task. Keep in mind that doing forgiveness work will set you free from past or current upsets , it is always worth it. 

Forgiveness does not create a relationship. Unless people speak the truth about what they have done and change their mind and behavior, a relationship of trust is not possible.

When you forgive someone you certainly release them from judgment, but without true change, no real relationship can be established....Forgiveness in no way requires that you trust the one you forgive. But should they finally confess and repent.
When learning how to forgive and forget, the important thing to keep in mind is that total forgiveness is possible and when we set out to consciously forgive someone or a situation, progress is always made. 
You will know that you have been set free thru forgiveness when the memory of a person or of a situation no longer triggers thoughts or emotions that don’t feel good.
Instead, you will have a greater sense of peace and perhaps even gratitude for the opportunity to heal thru a difficult situation. 

Thanks For This Line Ellen Villareal

"Appreciate those who love you. Help those who need you. Forgive those who hurt you. Forget those who leave you."

Wednesday, July 11, 2012


Children need their parents to be role models.When Everything is said & done and your children are independent adults, your parental role metamorphoses into becoming your children’s friend.Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands.
Perhaps not today, but one day, your children will be grateful for the guidance they received from their parents,
As today I am feeling....My Grandparents & My Parents are always My Role Model..& I'm Really Missing Them a Lot....So My heroes are and were my Parents. I can't see having anyone else as my heroes.So I always want to follow them. They are always the best!!!
Being Proud of My Parent's & Grandparents Positive Life Teachings,I often refer to the following quotation..

“They who teaches his Son/Daughter

Teaches not only his Son/Daughter,

But also his Son/Daughter’s Son/Daughter

And so on to the end of generations.”


- Silpa Satpathy Misra

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

10 Golden Keys to Successful Parenting

The Golden Keys to Successful Parenting............

It is important that we discipline in a way that teaches responsibility by motivating our children internally, to build their self-esteem and make them feel loved. If our children are disciplined in this respect, they will not have a need to turn to gangs, drugs, or sex to feel powerful or belong.
The following ten keys will help parents use methods that have been proven to provide children with a sense of well-being and security.
1 - Use Genuine Encounter Moments (GEMS)
Your child's self-esteem is greatly influenced by the quality of time you spend with him-not the amount of time that you spend. With our busy lives, we are often thinking about the next thing that we have to do, instead of putting 100% focused attention on what our child is saying to us. We often pretend to listen or ignore our child's attempts to communicate with us. If we don't give our child GEMS throughout the day, he will often start to misbehave. Negative attention in a child's mind is better than being ignored.
It is also important to recognize that feelings are neither right nor wrong. They just are. So when your child says to you, "Mommy, you never spend time with me" (even though you just played with her) she is expressing what she feels. It is best at these times just to validate her feelings by saying, "Yeah, I bet it does feel like a long time since we spent time together."
2 - Use Action, Not Words
Statistics say that we give our children over 2000 compliance requests a day! No wonder our children become "parent deaf!" Instead of nagging or yelling, ask yourself, "What action could I take?" For example, if you have nagged your child about unrolling his socks when he takes them off, then only wash socks that are unrolled. Action speaks louder than words.
3 - Give Children Appropriate Ways to Feel Powerful
If you don't, they will find inappropriate ways to feel their power. Ways to help them feel powerful and valuable are to ask their advice, give them choices, let them help you balance your check book, cook all our part of a meal, or help you shop. A two-year-old can wash plastic dishes, wash vegetables, or put silverware away. Often we do the job for them because we can do it with less hassle, but the result is they feel unimportant.
4 - Use Natural Consequences
Ask yourself what would happen if I didn't interfere in this situation? If we interfere when we don't need to, we rob children of the chance to learn from the consequences of their actions. By allowing consequences to do the talking, we avoid disturbing our relationships by nagging or reminding too much. For example, if your child forgets her lunch, you don't bring it to her. Allow her to find a solution and learn the importance of remembering.

5 - Use Logical Consequences
Often the consequences are too far in the future to practically use a natural consequence. When that is the case, logical consequences are effective. A consequence for the child must be logically related to the behavior in order for it to work. For example, if your child forgets to return his video and you ground him for a week, that punishment will only create resentment within your child. However, if you return the video for him and either deduct the amount from his allowance or allow him to work off the money owed, then your child can see the logic to your discipline.
6 - Withdraw from Conflict
If your child is testing you through a temper tantrum, or being angry or speaking disrespectfully to you, it is best if you leave the room or tell the child you will be in the next room if he wants to "Try again." Do not leave in anger or defeat.
7 - Seperate the Deed from the Doer
Never tell a child that he is bad. That tears at his self-esteem. Help your child recognize that it isn't that you don't like him, but it is his behavior that you are unwilling to tolerate. In order for a child to have healthy self-esteem, he must know that he is loved unconditionally no matter what he does. Do not motivate your child by withdrawing your love from him. When in doubt, ask yourself, did my discipline build my child's self-esteem?
8 - Be Kind and Firm at the Same Time
Suppose you have told your five-year-old child that if she isn't dressed by the time the timer goes off, you will pick her up and take her to the car. She has been told she can either get dressed either in the car or at school. Make sure that you are loving when you pick her up, yet firm by picking her up as soon as the timer goes off without any more nagging. If in doubt, ask yourself, did I motivate through love or fear?
9 - Parent with the End in Mind
Most of us parent with the mindset to get the situation under control as soon as possible. We are looking for the expedient solution. This often results in children who feel overpowered. But if we parent in a way that keeps in mind how we want our child to be as an adult, we will be more thoughtful in the way we parent. For example, if we spank our child, he will learn to use acts of aggression to get what he wants when he grows up.
10 - Be Consistent, Follow Through
If you have made an agreement that your child cannot buy candy when she gets to the store, do not give in to her pleas, tears, demands or pouting. Your child will learn to respect you more if you mean what you say.
This document is produced by the International Network for Children and Families and the 350 instructors of the "Redirecting Children's Behavior" course.

When To Educate Your Child About Sex ?

Most parents find it difficult to talk to their children about sex; some feel unconcern about sex education, but we should know that our children spend a lot of their time watching television and most of these programmes they watch and what happen around them affect their lifestyle either positively or negatively, so is up to we; parents should educate their children about sex and safety and not letting them learn it outside, because you don't know what they are been taught there.
Children around age six ask questions like "where babies came from?" or "what are breast are?" when children start asking question like this, the best thing parent should give them honest and accurate information, just tell them everything don't hid anything from them. Its better they know and learn from you than they should learn them outside, from that age, every year as they mature, you should add more information to the level of their understanding.
Let them know that:

1. No Drinking
2. No Smoking
3. No Sex, no babies until marriage

It is important that children should know what would happen if they should have sex, the diseases they could contacted even if they wear some type of condom, disease like STDs, but there are sure way of not contacting the disease or getting a girl pregnant, if he stay away from sex.
It would be nice for you sex educate your children rather than letting their teachers or learn from their friends which can be dangerous to them and to you their parent. So give your best to your children education.

Wednesday, June 6, 2012


By honoring yourself and treating yourself with respect, you set the stage up for others to treat you with respect.
GOD Almighty made us so delicate,so glorious creatures; and furnished us with such charms,so agreeable and so delightful to mankind; with souls capable of the same accomplishments with men.

I feel that as women we've allowed ourselves to be deluded 
by certain ideas that hold us back, such as the over-glorification of masculine consciousness. 
To me, liberation doesn't mean that I can think just like a man. 
Real liberation means that I can think, act, and be like a woman 
and receive equal respect, honor, and compensation. 
Liberation also means that even though I'm a woman,
I have masculine parts of my temperament 
which I can safely explore and integrate into my experience. In the same way, real liberation for men means that they can explore and integrate their feminine aspects of consciousness!!!

Women have always been the strong ones of the world. The men are always seeking from women a little pillow to put their heads down on. They are always longing for the mother who held them as infants.

It took years of being a grown up to get that confidence and self worth back but there are still days that I get caught up in challenging situations and forget.

(The daughters. The mothers. The sisters.
The fribblings – friends like siblings.
The wives. The girlfriends.
The aunts. The nieces.
The grand-somethings.
The young uns. The teens.
The women in your life.
Who love, lose, cry.
Laugh, heal, thrive.
Nurture. Create.)
I decided to create a reminder for myself and all women, bringing together quotes that inspire, empower and remind us of how powerful we really are.
Mere quotes won’t change your life, but they can change your perspective and your day.
ANYTHING is possible thereon.Because even though we have bad days, it’s not a bad life at all.


As. you. are.
Stronger than you know.
More beautiful than you think.
Worthier than you believe.
More loved than you can ever imagine.
Passionate about making a difference.
Fiery when protecting those you love.
Learning. Growing. Not alone.
Warm. Giving. Generous.
Quirky. Sexy. Funny. Smart.
Flawed. Whole. Scared. Brave.
And so, so, so.much.more.
Be Strong. Be Confident. Be You.

"Woman must not accept; she must challenge.
She must not be awed by that which has been built up around her;
she must reverence that woman in her which struggles for expression...."

I want to Respect Myself first...Then Expect others to Respect ,

ps: A smile is still the sexiest curve on your body. Ever.
pps: If you know a special woman, let her know how phenomenal she is.

                                                                                   - By Silpa Satpathy Misra

Saturday, May 12, 2012

Honouring Motherhood Is Our Pride !!!

Mother's Day is one of the most special occasions in OUR ( Silpa  & Lipsa ) life.
On this day, We want to pampers Our mother and lets her known how important she is and how much is she appreciated by us.While Our mother loves us equally, the relationship that she shares with us is always a bit extra special.
And As truly elegant taste is generally accompanied with excellency of heart....And We Can tell it Proudly That Our Mom is the Most Elegant Person We've Ever Seen,A Woman With Truly Pure Heart !!

So, it becomes the responsibility of us to express that, she realizes the unusual bond that We share and appreciates it all the same !!!

Love You A Lot Maa...Really Missing You On This Day !!!

It's The POEM For you .....Maa !!

"I miss you so much,
your laugh, your smile, your touch.
You always brightened my days
with all the smiles you sent my way.
I need you as my angel
to always be at my side.
I need you as my angel
to give me peace of mind.
I like to think your near to me
to know that you are there.
Even though I can not see you,
I feel that you are near.
Please do not forget me mom,
for you are always in my heart,
my thoughts and prayers.
I love you."

 It's The POEM For you .....Maa !!

"You were there when we took our first steps,
And went unsteadily across the floor.
You pushed and prodded: encouraged and guided,
Until our steps took us out the door...
You worry now "Are they ok?"
Is there more you could have done?
As we walk the paths of our unknown
You wonder"Where have my children gone?"
Where we are is where you have led us,
With your special love you showed us a way,
To believe in ourselves and the decisions we make.
Taking on the challenge of life day-to-day.
And where we go you can be sure,
In spirit you shall never be alone.
For where you are is what matters most to us,
Because to us that will always be home.." 

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Today It's Over. Now What Again...

It's over. Now what again....
Suffering from a broken heart or a Abusive Relationship? Afraid you'll never get over this feeling of emptiness and loss? You can, and with the help of this easy-to-follow program of action, you will.

Dealing with heartache. We have all been there, and its tough. There are no shortcuts to feeling better. It is good to reflect and remember the good times. and even better to share the pain from a broken heart. I believe that grieving of a loved one who hurts us, helps us to accept when its over.

"There is one pain I often feel which you will never know because it is caused by the absence of you."

"Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew."

"When I Look At You My Heart Skips A Beat But Later That Beat Could Mean A Lifetime Of Tears Wasted On Something,Who will never keep my Love Forever" 

"Now this gravel in our voices, glass is shattered from the fight.
In this tug of war, you’ll always win, even when I’m right.
Cause you feed me fables from your hand,
With violent words and empty threats and it’s sick
that all these battles are what keeps You satisfied.
 You, with your words like knives
And swords and weapons that you use against me
You have knocked me off my feet again
Got me feeling like a nothing
You, with your voice like nails on a chalkboard
Calling me out when I’m wounded
You picking on the weaker man than yours
But still God is heal my wounds
& takecare of the faults of yours !!"

 How many times does someone say "you will find someone else" that does not help when the person you want does not want you....

                                       Heart Break Is Painfull....Its a Sad Story !!!


"I think of you in Silence
I often speak your name
All I have left are memories
and a heart around your Name
My Heart aches with sadness
and all my tears will flow
but what it meant to lose you
no-one will ever know!!!"

"I'm going to smile and make you think I'm happy, I'm going to laugh, so you don't see me cry, I'm going to let you go in style,
and even if it kills me- I'm going to smile."

"It is not enemies who taunt me — I could bear that; it is not adversaries who deal insolently with me — I could hide from them. But it is you, my equal, my companion, with whom I kept pleasant company; we walked in the house of God with the Promisses…But now you are with speech smoother than butter, but with a heart set on war; with words that were softer than oil, but in fact were drawn swords.Husbands, love their wives, never treat them harshly!!You can act Really well,in front of others,and open my faults one after one...But i can't.So i prefer to tell the truth,when i feel frustrated."
"I loved you once I'll love you again, even though we will be not together, I 'll be with you until the end !!!"