Wednesday, June 6, 2012

FOR ALL THE WOMEN..RESPECT YOURSELF FIRST !!



By honoring yourself and treating yourself with respect, you set the stage up for others to treat you with respect.
GOD Almighty made us so delicate,so glorious creatures; and furnished us with such charms,so agreeable and so delightful to mankind; with souls capable of the same accomplishments with men.


I feel that as women we've allowed ourselves to be deluded 
by certain ideas that hold us back, such as the over-glorification of masculine consciousness. 
To me, liberation doesn't mean that I can think just like a man. 
Real liberation means that I can think, act, and be like a woman 
and receive equal respect, honor, and compensation. 
Liberation also means that even though I'm a woman,
I have masculine parts of my temperament 
which I can safely explore and integrate into my experience. In the same way, real liberation for men means that they can explore and integrate their feminine aspects of consciousness!!!

Women have always been the strong ones of the world. The men are always seeking from women a little pillow to put their heads down on. They are always longing for the mother who held them as infants.

It took years of being a grown up to get that confidence and self worth back but there are still days that I get caught up in challenging situations and forget.


(The daughters. The mothers. The sisters.
The fribblings – friends like siblings.
The wives. The girlfriends.
The aunts. The nieces.
The grand-somethings.
The young uns. The teens.
The women in your life.
Who love, lose, cry.
Laugh, heal, thrive.
Nurture. Create.)
I decided to create a reminder for myself and all women, bringing together quotes that inspire, empower and remind us of how powerful we really are.
Mere quotes won’t change your life, but they can change your perspective and your day.
ANYTHING is possible thereon.Because even though we have bad days, it’s not a bad life at all.

You.Are.Amazing.

As. you. are.
Stronger than you know.
More beautiful than you think.
Worthier than you believe.
More loved than you can ever imagine.
Passionate about making a difference.
Fiery when protecting those you love.
Learning. Growing. Not alone.
Warm. Giving. Generous.
Quirky. Sexy. Funny. Smart.
Flawed. Whole. Scared. Brave.
And so, so, so.much.more.
Be Strong. Be Confident. Be You.

"Woman must not accept; she must challenge.
She must not be awed by that which has been built up around her;
she must reverence that woman in her which struggles for expression...."

I want to Respect Myself first...Then Expect others to Respect ,
ME AS A WOMAN !!!

ps: A smile is still the sexiest curve on your body. Ever.
pps: If you know a special woman, let her know how phenomenal she is.

                                                                                   - By Silpa Satpathy Misra

2 comments:

  1. if only women learnt to respect women...

    its the women who ill treats her daughter in law..

    its the women who expects her spouse be respected by the family but disrespects her own sister in law....

    i being a woman wonder how this is going to change....

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    1. I really cant get you...what you want to say?? If you are a woman...then my point is to Respect yourself first..then expect others to Respect you..

      But if you are conserned about some family affair,of daughter-inlaw & Sister-Inlaw...Then here is my answer..
      If you are somebody's sis-in law...then you should understand,the girl you are making your family's daughter-inlaw,is new to your family..if you will make her comfortable with in your family..then she will also love you and respect you.

      But if you will see only the mistakes of her in every point..then definitely she will want to keep distance.Definitely she has left her home and her own family & home..where she was born...so for adjustment & all..she will need time..So just care for her needs..you should help to make husband and wife first comfortable to each other,let the husband first understand the wife & vice versa..then gradually she will accept n love u all. But if you will creat probs in her life, by telling against her to her husband...then its the time,when definitely..a wife will revolt..coz she has left all for the husband..

      Anyways dear..who are you,& whats your prob with your sis-in-law..I dont know..
      But in my paternal family..i have seen daughter-in laws as my mom,aunts and my both brother's wives...they have spent life in our house as daughters..they have freedom to do anything,they have freedom to take decisions...their mom & dad are treated like best buddies in our family.And all are very close to each other & they used to talk ,have fun together,unlike other families...Like Daugher-Inlaw's Family will always call N talk..& her Family will never get call of fun,from the Son-Inlaw's Family..instead they will get call only at the time,when they have to complain against the daughter-Inlaw to their parents!!Even i have seen daughter-inlaw, Mom-Inlaw,Sis-inlaw are having fun & never against eachother in our family..
      When any prob happen between husband & wife,Mom-inlaws always tried to make her son undersatand before talking to Daughter-Inlaw.They never aggravate the fights,so that the fights resolve very soon peacefully.

      Definitely A Daughter-inlaw never feel the inlaws family outsider...She always try hard to adjust..she only want some affection and love..if she will get that,she will be comfortable within you all.
      if a woman is sister of her husband,or Mother of her husband...then definitely important to her..so she will definitely try her best to mix with them well, but is she is a good wife..then.

      you have to be open minded..in so many cases...now a days also...people think that,daughter-inlaw should understand..and nobody will understand her!!
      Its a wrong thought..change that with in yourself...then you will find a new world.

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